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They should also look the part.
For a Dominant to play with and discard a submissive just for amusement is dishonorable exception is a submissive that has declared this is the treatment they need.
Remember: your job is emotional manipulation.
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The mistress must display clear, and effective communication, and part of that is having the submissive prepared to accept the order, and not currently engaged in another activity.